Social Unity Entitlement.

 Such a system poaches entitlement to your energies and shares it with those it wants to succeed whilst planning for your downfall. This is the entire scene of college and the romantics within. Truly you add into an element of options and potentials for others but if your goals are not in line with the few and monetary goals of college you simple don't stand to gain any benefit. The best a person can do when not an associated group is to guard their potential and not be used by anyone for that the fact people will graciously use you as a benefit but never give anything in return. Often colleges like to excel they provide the perfect social circumstances but they don't. They only engineer things so football player #1 or whatever, engineer student #1 or whatever and academic student try hard #1 or else can ever have any great benefits. They take advantage of whole people who other goals that are organic and not forced by their friends, family or anyone else. They are independents and its troubling people are seen as the new flavor to try and then toss aside as its not good for them. Often in my college experience; greatly did so many women just try to taste try you but never respect you. Always thinking you were something to be tried to supplement their boring, conformative and egoistical driven life but weren't. I can say these people never viewed me as a human but as a product. It could be said that with those olde highschool relationships that survive highschool some people need some dude or girl to be the enemy to keep their tired and growing apart relationship together or to be the connective clue to keep them together. Greatly the 3rd person gains nothing but being hated and used. Never respected to even be the boyfriend or girlfriend but used so that people can keep a boyfriend or girlfriend through this "imaginary combined-common enemy". Why should people reap this benefit when the individual is but innocent of wrongdoing and foremost knows not these people or that their friendship is used to keep two people together?

People like to accept that there is a world of potential in college but only on a mental scale. For greatly many people the potential good can never be because they are just the unhinged bad who should not even be considered into the pool of potential romantic relations that are positive and affirming to a good college sphere or even the real fucking world at all. Let's go with the real fucking world because that is what matters and not living in a fictional made up country where everyone must endear to show some school pride. There exist the potential good and there are those who can see the both of good and bad but really will skewer the good because they are bad and have warped minds of what is bad; simply because they aren't good people. Truly, no good person wins in college when they don't realize this reality. That many people will do the absolute of worst and be confident in this because they aren't good people. It takes conversation and getting to know people to truly know if the stars align and if people are meant for any other but yet 18/19 year kids suck at this indeed. Quite honestly people will be better off greatly learning to communicate with people before going to college and learning to not be around certain people who take use of the potential energy for bad.

I have to say so many women took advantage of whatever potential romantics there could be and slanted it all into something sexual and/or criminal. I will say there were people who just wanted to break people up to be messy as well. There was a certain girl called Nadia who had it out for this one couple supposedly in her friend group. Rather the girl in the relationship was her roommate and really much thought the worse of the boyfriend and would always ramble and talk bad about them behind their backs. These people however were good people and not malicious( in that time, I cannot speak for later on) so its to be said that she was taking advantage of their potential to boost herself up. I think that pretty much there was nothing to stop this person from behaving this way and really much was just a person who wanted these two people to split up. I personally thought she had feelings for the boyfriend but quite honestly was one of the most annoying people in that college dorm I lived. Never would shut up about speaking bad about these people if not others. 

I would say that greatly, a person ought to be sacred on who they allow to even take advantage of their potential. Should distance theirselves from people who make it hard for them to just be without becoming a "token enemy", "token boyfriend", "token girlfriend" and all else just a person who is just to be used. In my time of trying to make comics in these circumstances, a person realized that greatly they were caught up behind too many people and used for amusement. The many people I considered friends and even these so called women who liked me really weren't people who gave any thought to me at all as a person but just a means to an end. In greatness it does hurt when foremost all the women whom you can try to seek out bare the risk of being toxic and dragging down an entire operation of yours that itself from before you entered college hung on the edge of a cliff. When they only like you because of this experience of "new potentials" and new pathways forming of thought or them blocking these pathways because they simply just aren't good people and will make excuses to why they hate people they don't know but like. Would it be good to ever just speak to these people and see if they could help you along? No, not when they leech off your energy and make you into something you damn well aren't and don't want to be any "token boyfriend" to be a place holder until they get someone of a "respectable ambition and trade". No, not when they believe the nonsense of a regime that is the school which is hell bent against your goals of creating any media anything company and anything to be sold under such a company. No, not when they are easily turned against you more than they were sold onto you under a diversity regime. I just need to let people know this; just because a person is a person of color does not mean they group theirselves behind diversity idealisms at all or some feigned fake attempt to pretend everyone is equal when you have freaking racist cultures setting up shop and even going full terror on black people and other people they hate. I just remember again one time I went to the library and some indian girl ripped a paper out of my hand as if it was dirty. Why should some imbecile get to reap some individual or collective righteous thinking they are good for tolerating black people or just other people who aren't their race?

People would like you to believe in the college that everyone reaps the benefits of collective togetherness and seeing "potential togetherness" , social and romantic togetherness other than the alternative of hostility and violence but in truth only certain people benefit from so called "unity". And really much its never the good people but the people who are akin to manipulate and take advantage of things for their own benefits. This mindset can explain the ideals of those who are sexual abusers on campus; seeing that they must try people and that its a thing to be doing in college. Yet greatly, its very bad when people place this idealism not onto the proper people but the people who are fucked over by all this fake unity; the good people. Greatly, those who never go to college never understand the real great complexities of these "places of power" and miss a stage of their development or any development of a person who hopes to change the current status quo. If only more people went to college then truly this whole idealism of people taking advantage of potentials because everyone wants to believe good things occur in college-would surely falter as truly people would recognize what to truly stay away from to even survive in this place. There would be more stories of abuse and if not so much that societal change would have to happen. More people would be made aware of more things and there would be less of people taking advantage of "collective unity" and people's potential when only people have such a heightened interest in such potential in the college atmosphere. That is the social to romantic potential.