It is an ubspiritia.

 Kinx; the illusion you want but the great deception that you get. So many people lose whatever future you ever saw with them and whatever good qualities in time following indoctrination and utilize the good will to not learn to be these individuals of these traits but use these ideas to prosper essentially evil and insane plots against you. Time and time again a person will fall for the one and the true deception that all people should avoid but mostly in my case should avoid with women. People who want to be about that imagery but never will become it. They will in fact become the complete opposite. Good friend you wish them to be and then more yet they will become a bad individual who wants to rush everything and rush to uneasy and racist conclusions. Good lover that you wish to be but they will become nothing but an abuser. A person who you can spend your life with becomes a person who you will never spend anything of a life fighting them. These are what happens to people who fall into the folly and breathe their own hype and utilize what is the good will of a stranger to even consider them for their own hype and nonsense. I got to say that these people do not belong to any great cause but destruction and they may look for love and romance but all they will cause is a grand debacle itself that many people will just not survive. What can be said love surely can become domestic and sexual abuse to which their children are just items. In the end what is wrong is not the you looking to see them as the such but for them to realize what you see them as and destroy the relation. It is a betrayal of the spirit if not the mind and then all together a spirit mind. It is the destruction of what could be for the sake of evil and really one side not being able to come to terms of any responsibility to treat the other right or let them be. It is an uprising against doing what is right and posing the wrong as a right; it is an ubspiritia.